Keshia Knight Pulliam welcomed a healthy baby girl last month, but her daughter’s arrival wasn’t without some drama … and we don’t mean in the delivery room.
Pulliam — best known for playing Rudy Huxtable on The Cosby Show — gave birth to Ella Grace via a C-section and recently shared details about the special day on her podcast, Kandidly Keshia.
Keshia
was joined by her mother, Denise, and her BFF and doula, Shayla, for
Friday’s episode. The 37-year-old actress began her show by thanking the
doctors, nurses, and hospital for doing a great job; however, it was
the lactation specialist who really stuck out. And not in a good way!
“It
wouldn’t be me without the funny stories,” Pulliam laughed. “Bless this
old little lady’s heart,” she said of the lactation specialist, who she
estimated to be in her 70s.
“This
old little white lady, I think she may have voted for Trump, but bless
her heart,” she continued. “So lactation specialists, for those who
don’t know, because I’m breastfeeding, are the ones who help you through
the process … anything having to do with breastfeeding.”
Keshia,
mimicking the older woman’s Southern accent, told a story about how she
was handed a hospital pamphlet regarding resources for new mothers.
While that is standard procedure, the lactation specialist was primarily
focused on pointing out one particular page in the birth packet.
“Of
the 30-some odd things on here she says, ‘Yes, and we have some great
programs that you may want to take advantage of that you may need — WIC
is a great program; I don’t know if you have insurance,’” she recalled.
The Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children — also known as WIC
— provides federal grants to states for supplemental foods, health care
referrals, and nutrition education for low-income pregnant,
breastfeeding, and non-breastfeeding postpartum women, and to infants
and children up to age 5 who are found to be at nutritional risk.
“WIC
is welfare,” Keshia stated. “So I guess she saw this little black girl
with the little baby by herself, and on the door, I didn’t realize that
they’d put a faux last name, and the last name was ‘Brown.’ So I guess
she saw ‘Miss Brown’ and was like, ‘She probably needs some WIC.’”
Pulliam continued, “That’s when I stopped her — I said, ‘Ma’am, I have excellent insurance but thank you.'”
Keshia’s doula, Shayla, also witnessed the odd interaction and emphasized how the lactation specialist “did not want to help.”
“Like,
she didn’t want to touch me,” Keshia noted. “Lactation specialists …
literally will, like, guide your boob, show you how to hold it, put it
in the baby’s mouth. This lady was not trying to touch my little brown
boobie.”
“Not at all,” Shayla — who eventually requested another specialist — confirmed. “Or your little brown baby.”
Keshia’s mom sensed the uncomfortable situation as well.
“I
was like, Mom, it’s OK. This lady, she doesn’t know any better, because
if she knew better, she’d do better!” Pulliam exclaimed. “But yes, the
old Trump lady tried to give me the number for WIC. My thing is this: I
get it, it’s about showing the services that are offered, and I probably
wouldn’t have been offended had she [listed] several of the services,
[not just] WIC.”
Shayla
added, “The irony that if you needed to take care of [WIC], in that
moment you are trying to breastfeed — you are not trying to buy formula.
If you’re an expecting mother who is listening, your lactation
specialist … that’s supposed to be a hands-on experience. … You need
that resource when you’re in the hospital.”
Dear lactation specialist, as Julia Roberts said in Pretty Woman: “Big mistake. Big. Huge!”
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